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cupid is Discord's anonymous matchmaking app

Apply once, browse matches as a handle, and swap real usernames only when you both agree.

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what a match looks like

cupid#0417

cupid#1183

Powering 0k+ users across 0+ communities

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cupid's stage

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matchmaking

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How it works

Three commands, start to finish

No dashboard, no signup, no leaving Discord.

  1. Anyone

    Apply once

    /application

    Answer the questions and pick up a cupid# handle. Your username stays hidden from this point on.

  2. Anyone

    Get a match

    /find match

    cupid ranks handles against your answers and introduces the closest one. Not a random roulette.

  3. Both sides

    Reveal together

    /user reveal

    Usernames swap only when you both confirm. Until then, cancelling reveals nothing.

Why cupid

Built for privacy-first communities

Anonymous matchmaking for Discord. Part of the adore.rest network.

Anonymous handles

Everyone gets a cupid# handle. That's all anyone sees until both sides confirm a reveal.

Smart matching

Lookup ranks compatible people from your answers - not a random roulette.

Application panel

Drop a panel in your server so members can apply without leaving Discord.

Match controls

Confirm, cancel, and check match status with clear slash commands.

Reports & safety

Report handles for staff review. Scope matching per server or globally.

Built for communities

Part of the adore.rest network - free to invite, support one click away.

Ready when your server is

Invite cupid, explore the commands, and join support if you need a hand.

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Help

Before you invite

What is cupid?

cupid is an anonymous matchmaking bot for Discord. You fill in one application, get a private cupid# handle, and chat with compatible people without showing your real username until both of you agree to swap.

How do I start?

Run /application to apply and get your private handle. Once your application is complete, run /find match to find someone compatible.

Is it really anonymous?

Yes. Everyone sees your cupid# handle and your application answers - never your username, ID, or avatar. Usernames swap only after both people run /user reveal.

What if I change my mind?

Run /cancel match. The match closes, nothing is revealed, and you can look again straight away.

What is match scope?

Scope decides who you can be matched with. Admins set the server default with /setup search scope - inside the server only, or across every server cupid is in. You can narrow it for yourself with /search scope.

What does cupid store?

Your application answers, your handle, and your match history. cupid does not read or store messages outside the commands you run. Ask in the support server to have your data deleted.

Where do I get help?

Join the support server linked in the footer. To flag someone, use /report and staff will review the handle.